Welcome and congratulations on your weightloss so far. When I started this, I needed to lose 129 pounds. I still need to lose over 100, but I'm getting there. For many women who are this much overweight, it is easier to say that you are shallow than it is to say you are strong and commited and I wish I could be like you. I've been there and I've used that before myself. You are not shallow for wanting to be healthy and comfortable with yourself. I'm proud of you for making the commitment, but I also ask that you try not to be mad at her for it. It's very painful to be sooo big and sometimes its just too hard to face the reality. Just hope that someday she will care enough about herself to look in the mirror and face her true self. When she does, she's really going to need someone to care.
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