[lucylicious]

Does anybody remember their first time? I was 18, and dating my first boyfriend, who I've been with for about a year and a half now...I remember wondering how it could hurt so much and why it lasted such a short amount of time....haha...luckily it's MUCH better now...anyone else want to share? Just felt like I'd try to keep this thread going because there haven't been too many posts lately.... 8)

[magenta]

Yeah I remember my first time.I was 15yrs old,he was 17.My mum had gone out for a few hours.I had a few friends over watching videos/mucking around.My boyfriend and me were running all over the house hitting each other with tea towels.You know flicking like a whip.We ended up in the back room alone wrestling on the floor.We had been together for about 3months.He had been pressuring me for sex from the start. :o I had been saying no to him until this momment happened.It was all over pretty fast and did hurt a bit.But I thought,is that all it is?Guys want this all the time for afew minutes of pleasure?To this day I think sex is very over rated.Not that I dont enjoy it,I have an orgasm every time.But I wouldnt go to the lengths a guy goes to get it!All the things they put us women through,have affairs when married,check out women/perve right in front of you.Just to put you into a weight loss tailspin. There is so much more to a relationship than sex 8) :P

[ACE223]

Oh yes, the first time.... I was 18 and a camp leader and she was a leader in training. We had snuck out of our cabins a few times the nights before and just fooled around. But on the third night on the picknic bench under the stars it was just all to right. Then 30 seconds later it was all over. Oh yes!!!! The first time!!!! The felling of what the hell am I doing???

[lucylicious]

Yeah the first time is wierd. Luckily it gets better after that. Magenta you were so young! Do you regret it?

[magenta]

No,I was ready or I wouldnt have let him otherwise.I wouldnt like my daughter to start that young.My mum wasnt around much,more interested in her boyfriend.She used to go to his place for days,the perfect opportunity for a teenager to 'sow wild oats'.I was on the pill,my mum took me to the docs to get it.I didnt get pregnant or catch any diseases.I survived my teen years ok. :smile: :-o

[lucylicious]

Well that's cool Magenta. I guess different people mature at different ages. Anyway kids are much more likely to start at an earlier age if their parents don't set the best example. But then, there are always the kids that go ahead and have sex even though their parents have been good role models all along...Oh well, I guess it isn't a really big deal at all actually. It's just sex, and as long as you are emotionally ready for it and do it safely then it is okay...

[ACE223]

Sorry Lucy but I had to laugh when I read the part about have parents that were good role models. It made me think of mine... My dad was gay :shock: and my mom just had her first sex talk with me about a yr before I got married. I sure hope I help out my kids a bit more. My wife had her first kid at 14. So I am 26 and my oldest is 9. I love my kids to death. But yes I agree that you should be carefull. :grin:

Heck we had a 13 that had a baby up here at the hospital a few weeks back. I see young kids all the time coming in here.

[NeedtoLose]

I lost mine at 14. It was not good. I let my boyfriend pressure me into it. It was painful and I regret doing it so early. I am now 31. I have had like 6 sexual partners throughout my life. So it is not like I was promiscuous. I don't have any children.

I developed really early. I got my period when I was in the 3rd grade (age 8 or 9) and I got a real bra the same year. I have felt like I was having to deal with horny boys since the age of 8! I think that is where some of the weight came from. I was sick of being a sexual object. Hiding behind all of that fat made me invisable to guys. None of them were interested anymore.