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Ah, this topic is soo interesting... Yet it makes me sad because it reminds me of how unlucky i am with getting good friends.
What annoys me.
1. As many people have said in this thread, friends who are nice to you and expect to get paid back for their niceness. Sorry, but i have always believed that friendship is not an exchange and no matter what, they have to respect that you can't always do what they request of you. When you do something nice to someone, its because you wanted to. I don't go expecting a "Thank you" or them returning the favor. (Although, it would be nice if they thanked you. Cause its pretty much formal)
2. People who try to define you when they don't even know you. Ugh, these people... I don't mind that they do this, however... When they start telling everyone what they think about you... They start building a false image of you.
3. People who tells you what you should and shouldn't do. This is a big one... especially for those that think they are doing "the right thing" seriously, i choose to live my life the way i have and i will do what i want, when i want. Telling people that you should go to a university or pick a certain career or live your life in a certain way, is wrong in my opinion because we are not "them". There is something called diversity and civilization would not be where it is today without it.
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