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The drama around here is never ending, I should have my own show.
Here is a little background:
My husband never met his real dad and never new he even had any other family. Well 4 years ago, I found his sisters all 6 of them. Yes I said 6. His dad had children with a total of 5 different mothers. Well, these women were all very excited to meet their brother and that is when the problems began. There is way too many incidents to count in which they have tried to make me out as the "bad guy" in their lives and tried to turn my husband against me. I am too nervous to put on the internet any real opinions of them. I will send you a message regarding that later.
I am the type of person that is brutally honest. I say what I mean and don't hold much back.
The latest drama is that one of the sisters, we will call her T, has been telling us about how one of the other sisters, we will call her J, is partying all the time, sleeping around, stealing money from her kids, etc. One of the kids even walked in on her "doing" some guy who wasn't her husband. I have talked to this sister twice total in the past 3 months and each time all she can talk about is who she did and partying. Keep in mind she is a 37 year old married woman and a new grandma. Anyway, T and I talked on the phone the night before last and discussed the behavior of J. Well after that conversation, T called their mom and called J and made it sound like I was "telling on her". I get an email yesterday from J telling me how I "single handedly ruined her life" Yes, that is a quote. My husband is in Afghanistan and he received a similar email bitching about his wife. I only responded with confirming that I spoke my opinion but T was the one with all the information. My thoughts on this are, if you are 37 years old, you shouldn't have to worry about getting in trouble like a small child. If you are 37 years old, you should be behaving in a way that wouldn't cause you such alarm if your mother found out. She is supposed to be an adult, obviously her behavior is so bad she went on the total defensive. Whatever. Not my problem. I had a 5 minute phone conversation in which I did more listening than anything else, and I some how am the one to blame.
Well, My wonderful husband isn't falling for it this time. He sent her back an email telling her how he is sick and tired of his sisters being jealous of his wife and blaming his wife for the way they fucked up in their own lives. His wife will always give you her honest opinion and will be blunt at times if she doesn't agree.(he knows me so well) If her life is supposedly ruined, she did that herself by the way she has been acting... there was more to the email but you get the picture. I love my husband, he didn't fall for the family drama bullshit this time.
I just wanted to give you a little snipit of what's going on. There are also other issues with my kids that are driving me insane but they are leaving tomorrow to spend a week with their grandparents in South Dakota, so I will recover from that.
I have to get ready for work, I will write later.
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