Portion control is my issue also...not eat all day, then stuff myself at supper! Thankfully I can tell you that it is getting easier after about 5 months on this, I am not fighting the urges like I was before. I am even beginning to leave food on my plate!! And I don't let anyone make me feel guilty about "wasting" food! lol!! (my hubby tends to say that!)
What helped me the most was drinking a bottle of water before eating, and eating a small salad or some fruit before the meal. And then I put half the size portions than what I would normally take on my plate. When I ate, I took my time....making sure to chew every bite, setting the fork down after taking a few bites, talking to the kids, or hubby, or anything to help me slow down. If I ate all that was on my plate, I told myself that it was plenty for now, and if I was still hungry 20 minutes from then, I would get more, but I never did go back for more.
Maybe it would be a good thing to cut the wine out temporarily, but I would say that once you feel that you have a handle on your daily calorie intake, have it! Especially if it something that makes you feel good! Denying all our small "treats" for ourselves only makes sticking with our diets harder, because you are more likely to get discouraged if you can't have anything that you really enjoy.
You are doing awesome!! 
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